Showing posts with label positive body gestures. Show all posts
Showing posts with label positive body gestures. Show all posts

Friday, July 5, 2024

CHASE HUGHES: How to Keep Ego in Check During Disagreements

It's important not to let your ego play into anything.  So if someone starts saying something, agree with it and be like, "Well, that very well could be true. I didn't know I was going to get cross-examined, but I think that very well could be true."  

But I want you to give those positive body gestures, those big open arms, those gestures that are like bringing someone into you, these gestures that are like pulling someone into you, big open arms.  All of those gestures, the moment that person decides to correct their action so they get more of your attention and they get more of this open body language where you're talking to each other.  I'm immediately shifting.  The moment that the behavior is corrected, the moment a punishment begins, it should not last more than a quarter of a second.  The moment it's over with, there's instantaneous release of anything that's negative there.  There's no emotional decay; there's no emotional half life that needs to spend itself off over time.