MJ MURPHY: Dude. The real disgrace would be telling women their boundaries don't matter. Dignity is not hatred. Privacy is not bigotry. Safety is not discrimination, and protecting sex based spaces does not ruin lives.

Another male crying victim for being excluded from a female sex based space. pic.twitter.com/ORDF7WOw8M

— MJ Murphy (@hothingsgirlsay) June 24, 2026

TRANS KANSAS LAWMAKER SLAMS BILL BANNING BIOLOGICAL MEN FROM WOMEN'S BATHROOMS

Thank you, Mr Speaker.  On its face, this bill obviously discriminates against transgender people.

00:09.  No, it separates bathrooms by biological sex. That is how bathrooms have operated for generations.  Protecting female spaces is not discrimination. It's recognizing sex differences.

In ways that make our lives exponentially more difficult and dangerous . . . 

00:29.  Dangerous for whom?  Women are statistically at far greater risk of sexual assault than men. Sex-segregated bathrooms exist because of that reality. Not because of cruelty.

Good morning seriously it is yet another way of policing women and our bodies . . .

00:52.  Sir, women are not being policed.  Women are asking for boundaries.  Female privacy is not oppression, it's a basic civil right.

In the absence of men and masculinity being subjected to the same scrutiny. 

01:10.  No, Sir.  Men's spaces are not the issue because men are not physically vulnerable to female in the same way females are vulnerable to males.  That's not ideology.  That's biology, Sir.

There's no outrage about trans boys playing in sports.

01:31.  And that's because female athletes lose opportunities when male bodies compete in women's categories.  The performance gap matters.  That's why this debate exists.  

There's no hand ringing about husbands and Sons sharing their bathrooms with trans men.

01:54.  Correct.  Because women are the sex with higher rates of sexual victimization.  Policy follows risk.

This is about blaming women for the bad behavior of men.

02:11.  No sir.  It's about not forcing women to absorb the consequences of male behavior.  Women didn't create male violence.  We shouldn't have to surrender our spaces to accommodate it.

And we may be done with this travesty in the Statehouse but now we've just Unleashed it upon our families and our friends.

02:40.  No, sir.  What's being unleashed is clarity.  Bathrooms are separated by sex.  That standard protects everyone without requiring women to override instinct or privacy.

And our colleagues, and this is an embarrassment and a disgrace, and it is going to no doubt ruin lives.

03:03.  Dude.  The real disgrace would be telling women their boundaries don't matter.  Dignity is not hatred.  Privacy is not bigotry.  Safety is not discrimination, and protecting sex based spaces does not ruin lives.  It maintains clear, neutral standards that protect everyone's rights without forcing women to surrender theirs.  Calling this "life ruining"?  Come on, that's dramatic.  No one's life is ruined by not entering a woman's restroom.  Women's rights however are eroded when male access becomes mandatory.

MJ MURPHY: This is forced teaming plus moral stacking. So it says if you disagree with me, you're aligned with all oppression.

Sarah McBride NLP Breakdown pic.twitter.com/1C1jUpJUqG

— MJ Murphy (@hothingsgirlsay) June 24, 2026

00:00. All right, I'm going to give you the big picture first. This speech is doing three things.  One, experience equals identity.  If I experience what women experience, I am one.  Two, borrowed Authority.  Using real female struggles to build credibility, shield identity from critique.  And three, the moral framing trap.  Disagreement is reframed as oppression, narrow-mindedness, and control.  

I never realized how disempowering and unsafe it would feel to have . . .  

Okay, so here's the emotional anchoring.  He's opening with vulnerability and what that does, that lowers our critical thinking.  Then there's a presupposition which assumes the experience is inherently tied to Womanhood.  Then there is an identity merge: feeling unsafe equals validation of the identity.  So translation is if I feel what [a] woman feel[s], I am one.  

To have a stranger feel and titled to make a comment about my looks or my body . . . 

So now he is trying to use the universal female experience framing and that gives us forced equivalence harassment is shared identity category right so the reality gap is experiencing a behavior does not equal belonging to that biological category that behavior is directed toward.  

Inviting comments for having the audacity to walk down the street.  If I wasn't smiling, I was told to smile . . .  

Yeah, some chaser probably told him to smile.  What he's doing is he's using relatable scripting.  He's pulling from common female complaints in order to build credibility. He's borrowing, and what I want you to notice is this is pattern stacking.  He's using multiple relatable examples layered to create emotional agreement.  

If I am smiling, it's a special invitation for more comments.  You're treated like both a delicate infant and a sexualized Idol in the exact same moment.  

Yeah, he wishes.  He f****** wishes.  What he's doing is he's doing paradox framing, a contradiction equals sophistication illusion.  So this makes the argument feel deep without proving a goddamn thing.  And why this works is that the brain interprets complexity as truth.  It's also a confusion pattern as I've talked about before.  

Your thoughts are dismissed and your emotion minimized your insecurities emphasize and your body objectified.

So notice this is a rhythmic escalation.  It's trance- inducing.  So it's emotionally intensified and it's stacking rapidly.  This is a classic Milton model language.  It's vague.  It's generalized.  It's emotionally loaded and there's no specifics to challenge.  

And your body objectified the simple and the mundane decisions that I never had to think about . . .

So now he's doing his before and after transformation story so what it implies is I didn't deal with this before now I do so therefore I transitioned into Womanhood but there's a hidden leap change in Social treatment does not equal a change in sex category.

The morning before soon became integral to avoiding a thousand judgments and in finding my own Womanhood.  I was told that if I was too feminine that I was a caricature or inauthentic as if masculinity is some sort of natural state of being, a default, a preference.  But if I wasn't feminine enough, then I was told that I wasn't a real woman . . .

So you're still not a real woman.  But what he's doing here is he's trying to use a double-bind.  There's no winning position.  So the audience feels Injustice and what's important to know is this is a real social tension that we women do experience, but he's using it to bridge identity and borrow legitimacy.  

Pop culture, television, movies, music, politics, fashion, all telling all of us what it means to be a real woman.

4:43.  So the technique here is he's diffusing the blame.  Attacks a vague system so that there's no one specific to challenge.  And this is a classic move.  If the enemy is everywhere, it's impossible to question the claim.  

I had finally, finally, come out of the closet only to find myself stuck in the kitchen.

Poor Timothy McBride!  What he's doing here is he's metaphor hijacking.  He's combining LBGTQ oppression narrative with feminist domestic oppression narrative and why this is powerful is because it's merging two narrow frameworks into one emotional punch.  

And it became clear very quickly that the same forces, the same forces, that said to me, "No, you're not a woman," those are the same forces that say there's only one way to love, only one way to live, only one way to act, only one way to dress, only one rule to play. 

Look, he's good.  He's very good.  So what he's doing here it's unification of opposition.  Anyone who disagrees equals the same oppressive force.  This is forced teaming plus moral stacking.  So it says if you disagree with me, you're aligned with all oppression.  

All right, so let me just say this.  Listen, experiencing sexism doesn't change your sex.  It just means you've experienced sexism.  You're describing how women are treated not what women are.  Social treatment is not a biological category.  You borrowed the struggles, but that doesn't grant the identity.  This whole speech replaces definition with feeling and hopes you don't notice.