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So, the officer is being kind and explaining way more than he is required to explain, and I think that's a bad thing that has gotten into a lot of people now like I need to explain everything to these people. But he's also defending his actions. He's explaining himself but he's also matching her volume and her tone. He's essentially getting into an argument. And I admire this guy's composure, but, in this instance, keep in mind, that two people who have never met will automatically and unconsciously decide who is the leader in that interaction. This will almost always come down to two factors: number one is the person who's least reactive to the other person; number two is the person with the most composure. Keep that in mind not just for this video but for your whole life.
